Okay so my husband and I hre having major problems after only 10 months of marriage. I can’t picture my life without him but i’m wondering if marriage counseling would even be helpful at this point.
Any sucess stories from couples whose marriage was saved because of counseling?
marriage counseling is always a good solution. don’t throw in the towel until you can talk it out. when both sides ar angry it’s always good to have a mediator. that how i think of a counselor.
July 21st, 2010 at 7:38 pm
It works better before you are married. Unfortunately most people go to counseling when it is too late. Too much animosity and resentment is usually built up too save the marriage. It will take monumental efforts of both people for counseling to be effective. good luck.
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July 21st, 2010 at 8:04 pm
The best answer is when both parties participate honestly and openly without repercussions. If you can agree to that then you have a chance. The first years can be tough and challenging. Try some time working with your church pastor before going the professional route. Good luck to you whatever happens.
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July 21st, 2010 at 8:10 pm
Each write a letter explaining about the way you feel about things.
Marriage is never easy it’s a matter of talking and compromising.
Sometimes when your young though, it’s difficult to discuss things without it turning into a heated arguement because your both shouting at each other.
By writing it down and you both sitting quietly on your own reading what the other person has to say about the situation, you will find that what is written sinks in and you will think about it more carefully than if these things were said face to face. You can also be totally honest without embarrassment.
It works, believe me…do try it.
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Personal opinion from experienced 62 year old woman.
July 21st, 2010 at 8:29 pm
marriage counseling is always a good solution. don’t throw in the towel until you can talk it out. when both sides ar angry it’s always good to have a mediator. that how i think of a counselor.
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July 21st, 2010 at 8:44 pm
both of you guys need to seat down and just be honest with each other. for example you could say babe i love you so much, i really want us to work out. I want to do everything in my power to keep are love alive. That is why we need to start talking about are emotions, how we feeling,are problems so we can fix them baby. You know why I want ti fix it babe, its because I love you from the bottom of my heart. I know when I tell you I love you, you think its a normal thing. But i want you to believe it baby every time, I cant see my self with nobody else, but only you. So what do you say you want to fix this”. Let me know what happned
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July 21st, 2010 at 9:26 pm
I have never had to resort to this but to answer your question of when would it be good to do that… Answer- Anytime you feel as though the lines of communication have closed between the two of you. Which can happen often, but anything worth keeping is worth working at. Being happy afterwards is just a perk of the success of the actual counseling.
~good luck
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