Sep 26

How To Save My Marriage Fast - 2 Simple Rules

Are you asking yourself how to save my marriage fast? Well you’ve come to the right place.

My Name is Jared Kelly. In just the first year of marriage my wife and I had gone through 2 deaths in the family, 5 job “changes”, and 2 evictions from our homes. Because of all this mess we had to figure how we were going to stay together with all the stresses and problems that we were facing.

Firstly it is very important to know how we as people operate. Here is some special information that I would like to emphasize since it?s such an important part of having a long lasting and happy marriage.

RULE NUMBER #1: Learn what “language” your partner speaks and use it.

This can mean a couple of things…..and the only thing that it doesn’t have to do with is the obvious

I’m not talking about if your partner speaks Chinese or Spanish and you can only speak English. What I mean by this is women and men differ greatly from how they communicate love to each other. Not only do we each want love shown differently but we usually only give what we want to receive….it?s a natural human instinct. But what happens when we do this? Neither partners needs are met. Men have love communicated to them mostly with physical touch. When a man wants to show love to a women, most of the time it’s through a hug or a kiss. On the flip side when a woman wants to show love it’s on a more emotional level, through eye contact, sincere loving words, etc.

Listen very closely to what I’m about to say….since either partner is only giving what they hope to receive individual needs aren’t being met. And when your needs aren’t being met the last you want to do is meet needs.

The key is once we understand how our partner wants to be loved, then and only then, can we can effectively give them what they need. So when it comes to your wife, find thoughtful, sincere, and loving things to say to her. And wives when it comes to your husbands, give him a big hug and long kiss when you see him next.

Now don’t get me wrong and take it to the extreme. A man can still feel love through assuring words and a woman can still feel love through physical touch. What I am saying is that your efforts will have a more profound loving effect once you figure out how your partner needs love.

Once you learn your partners love language make sure to pay attention and give it as much as it’s needed.

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How To Save My Marriage Fast

Rule # 2: Eliminate distractions to focus on what matters.

At the start of our marriage my wife and I were GLUED to the TV. I would come home late every day and all my wife and I would do is watch TV until we went to bed. That is very dangerous to the health of your marriage. The average American watches 2-3 hours of TV a day! That’s crazy! Just turn it off and see what happens. Talk to each other more, laugh more, get to know each other, go for a walk, and listen to music. The options are endless!

“But what about my favorite show”. I’ve been there and done that. Do you know how important these shows become once you break your addiction? They mean absolutely nothing, you don’t even think about them……and it feels good.

Once TV is out of your life (or severely limited) you can really see what awesome things life and your marriage has in store for you. You have time to bond physically and mentally, you can ride your bikes around town, read a good book together, go on a walk, go on a cheap date, it’s awesome!

TV is usually the number #1 time waster but it can be a different thing for you. Point being is that you should recognize what doesn’t matter and eliminate it to make room for what matters.

Now you’re probably thinking, OK that’s sounds great, but how do I actually START DOING all this? To be honest, it’s simple. Just make a choice, day in and day out, to make your marriage a priority and to not stop until it’s better. My wife and literally came from screaming, physical brawling, crying, and talks of divorce to where we are today…….love, respect, laughter, and a feeling of “oneness”. The only way we started the healing was to find the information we needed to move our relationship in a positive direction one step at a time.

Thanks for reading this. If your still asking yourself how to save my marriage fast, then watch these step-by-step video tutorials I’ve created that easily explain how to easily do in your marriage what is outlined above in a video format, with examples!:

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