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If you were married for 21 years and your spouse gave you the option to either find a friend to have threesomes with and occasional nights out or get a divorce, what would you choose? Do you think your spouse would really follow through with the divorce if you choose not to have a threesome?

First-off, you should never swing (and yes, a threesome is technically swinging) to save a marriage or relationship. It doesn’t. And after years in the swinger lifestyle myself, every case of divorce I’ve heard of was with a couple who used having sex with others to "fix" or to "spice-up" their marriage. If there are problems to begin with all it does is add more problems. Swinging and threesomes are to explore your sexual fantasies in a safe environment with your spouse. No one should ever be coerced or manipulated into it, or anything for that matter. It only builds resentment toward the other person.

If your spouse is thinking this is what your marriage needs, they are definitely selfish and immature. You don’t swing to be happy in your relationship, you swing because you are totally happy and fulfilled in your relationship and it simply is an extension of that.

Would you live out every day in misery just to make your parents and relatives happy? Would you forsake your own happiness for the happiness of others? How many of you would do this? And how many of you are actually doing this now?

look honey if your not happy whats the point. you should know that without love , life is meaningless. you should confront your parents and tell them how you fill. if they still don’t understand ,oh well . follow your heart. who cares what other people think , be yourself and try to find that perfect someone.

good luck with that

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When you exchanged vows, you promised your spouse that you would stay with them “until death do you part.”

So what happened to get you to the point that you are considering divorce?

If you can remember what made you fall in love in the first place, you can learn how to save your marriage by following these simple tips.

1.Schedule some time together.
Turn off your cell phones, your television and your instant messenger. Now sit down together and really listen to each other. Share your feelings with your spouse and listen to them share their feelings as well.

2. Write each other love letters.
Taking the time to send your spouse a little reminder that you love them can really help you reconnect. Plus, emphasizing your significant other’s best qualities can remind you what made you fall in love in the first place.

3. Plan a date night.
Many couples get so comfortable with each other after being married for several years that they stop dressing up for each other and going out on dates. You can re-energize your relationship with your spouse by planning a night out once a week when you have no choice but to dress your best.

4. Do something for yourself.
If you’re feeling self-conscious about your body, you’re probably going to reflect that onto your spouse. Create an exercise program to help you lose weight and eat a balanced diet. Buy yourself a new outfit for date night, or spend a day at the spa. Do something that makes you feel better about yourself.

5. Make your spouse your number one priority.
With work and kids demanding your constant attention, it’s easy to ignore the other adult in your life. But someday it will once again just be the two of you, and you are going to find that you no longer truly know the person sleeping beside you. Take a moment each day for your spouse and let them know you’re thinking about them throughout the day.

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I’d rather not hear any til death do you part stuff…I already know that.
Here is the kicker – He doesn’t hit me, or cheat, drink too much or anything like that. I am just very unhappy and he is a total workaholic and I don’t feel like I am getting "my money’s worth" so to speak. I love him, but we have a daughter that needs him too and he just is NOT available. Work takes priority over everything, then hobbies, then his personal time. We come last.
This has been going on for 3 years….we have little sex and it is always on his terms, i.e. very quick and unfulfilling and he gets up right away and runs back to his computer. NO romance, no real dialogue and he is always angry…not at me, just in general and he takes it out on me and our daughter. I’m at my wits end and have come to realise I am wasting my time, I can do better and he seems to need to be single so he isn’t pressured to spend time with any family. I guess I wonder if I moved out for a while, if he would even notice
Yes, we’ve talked repeatedly, yes, we’ve gone to counseling, I have tried everything.
I also work full time and am the sole caretaker for home and our child.
I also might add that he does not have a drivers license due to stupid things before I met him…so I have to drive evryone to/from where they need to go.
And the last time I talked to him about seperating he had no clue why, and asked me if I was interested in someone else!?! Completely clueless!
I don’t want to leave and this is upsetting, but i’m kindof freaking out. I can live like this, sure. But who would want to?

I have an idea.. SHOW HIM THIS QUESTION THAT YOU WROTE….
i myself left when mine didnt act happy. He found no joy in us… I kept telling him that if he didnt start acting happy I would let him go find someone that DID make him happy…..
eventually, I woke one morning and said… This kid of mine would be better off with us apart and left THAT DAY and never looked back.
Who knows what your breaking point will be?
Now if he is a good father and nervous and fussy because he wants his wife and kids atken care of and he is afraid of being the person responsible (financially) for all that… and he IS A MAN… (they do have testosterone issues to deal with) it might be unfair for you to leave when all he does is *(in his mind) work to take care of you…. BE HONEST… tell him you want more humor and joy…. you NEED more humor and joy…. They say that two SEPARATE but happy functioning individuals will make better parents than two miserable fighting ones… but i dont know who this ‘they’ are and you do what you have to do….
Your daughter will be fine. She doesnt need to think that two arguing fussing unhappy people make a marriage… or she might just have one of those herself when SHE grows up….
Show him this question at least he will know you are searching for answers… maybe HE would like to pose a few questions himself….. like:
I work hard and my wife is saying she may leave because of lack of romance… is she NUTS?
You know what I am saying? Maybe yahoo answers will save your marriage and get you talking about what needs to be talked about like counselling couldnt do. Good luck