are there holds barred in the bedroom. your husband wants to have sex with you and everyone else and in any style, fashion, and form

When a mate wants to have sex with others and doesn’t appreciate what defiling the matrimonial bed means then it is time to call it a day.

As far as creativity in the bedroom goes that has to be by mutual agreement. Sure, a wife should want to please her mate and vice versa but there ARE limits and if one is feeling uncomfortable then you just don’t do it. It isn’t rocket science. Bodies aren’t intended to be used as objects for self-gratification.
I may be old fashioned but I still believe in the concept of "love" making. There is a difference between "having sex" with someone and "making love" to them. If someone just wants to have sex they don’t need a partner!

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If you were married for 21 years and your spouse gave you the option to either find a friend to have threesomes with and occasional nights out or get a divorce, what would you choose? Do you think your spouse would really follow through with the divorce if you choose not to have a threesome?

First-off, you should never swing (and yes, a threesome is technically swinging) to save a marriage or relationship. It doesn’t. And after years in the swinger lifestyle myself, every case of divorce I’ve heard of was with a couple who used having sex with others to "fix" or to "spice-up" their marriage. If there are problems to begin with all it does is add more problems. Swinging and threesomes are to explore your sexual fantasies in a safe environment with your spouse. No one should ever be coerced or manipulated into it, or anything for that matter. It only builds resentment toward the other person.

If your spouse is thinking this is what your marriage needs, they are definitely selfish and immature. You don’t swing to be happy in your relationship, you swing because you are totally happy and fulfilled in your relationship and it simply is an extension of that.

Would you live out every day in misery just to make your parents and relatives happy? Would you forsake your own happiness for the happiness of others? How many of you would do this? And how many of you are actually doing this now?

look honey if your not happy whats the point. you should know that without love , life is meaningless. you should confront your parents and tell them how you fill. if they still don’t understand ,oh well . follow your heart. who cares what other people think , be yourself and try to find that perfect someone.

good luck with that

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Taking the time to send your spouse a little reminder that you love them can really help you reconnect. Plus, emphasizing your significant other’s best qualities can remind you what made you fall in love in the first place.

3. Plan a date night.
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I’d rather not hear any til death do you part stuff…I already know that.
Here is the kicker – He doesn’t hit me, or cheat, drink too much or anything like that. I am just very unhappy and he is a total workaholic and I don’t feel like I am getting "my money’s worth" so to speak. I love him, but we have a daughter that needs him too and he just is NOT available. Work takes priority over everything, then hobbies, then his personal time. We come last.
This has been going on for 3 years….we have little sex and it is always on his terms, i.e. very quick and unfulfilling and he gets up right away and runs back to his computer. NO romance, no real dialogue and he is always angry…not at me, just in general and he takes it out on me and our daughter. I’m at my wits end and have come to realise I am wasting my time, I can do better and he seems to need to be single so he isn’t pressured to spend time with any family. I guess I wonder if I moved out for a while, if he would even notice
Yes, we’ve talked repeatedly, yes, we’ve gone to counseling, I have tried everything.
I also work full time and am the sole caretaker for home and our child.
I also might add that he does not have a drivers license due to stupid things before I met him…so I have to drive evryone to/from where they need to go.
And the last time I talked to him about seperating he had no clue why, and asked me if I was interested in someone else!?! Completely clueless!
I don’t want to leave and this is upsetting, but i’m kindof freaking out. I can live like this, sure. But who would want to?

I have an idea.. SHOW HIM THIS QUESTION THAT YOU WROTE….
i myself left when mine didnt act happy. He found no joy in us… I kept telling him that if he didnt start acting happy I would let him go find someone that DID make him happy…..
eventually, I woke one morning and said… This kid of mine would be better off with us apart and left THAT DAY and never looked back.
Who knows what your breaking point will be?
Now if he is a good father and nervous and fussy because he wants his wife and kids atken care of and he is afraid of being the person responsible (financially) for all that… and he IS A MAN… (they do have testosterone issues to deal with) it might be unfair for you to leave when all he does is *(in his mind) work to take care of you…. BE HONEST… tell him you want more humor and joy…. you NEED more humor and joy…. They say that two SEPARATE but happy functioning individuals will make better parents than two miserable fighting ones… but i dont know who this ‘they’ are and you do what you have to do….
Your daughter will be fine. She doesnt need to think that two arguing fussing unhappy people make a marriage… or she might just have one of those herself when SHE grows up….
Show him this question at least he will know you are searching for answers… maybe HE would like to pose a few questions himself….. like:
I work hard and my wife is saying she may leave because of lack of romance… is she NUTS?
You know what I am saying? Maybe yahoo answers will save your marriage and get you talking about what needs to be talked about like counselling couldnt do. Good luck

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I really have a situation here. I have never cheated on my husband and he has never cheated on me. But we have been separated for almost 2 months now. We have been married almost 10 years. But somehow over the years we just took each other for granted. Apparently he was feeling neglected and I was too. He was the one who left and now he want even talk to me. He says he hates me and he wants a divorce. We both were married previously. I have no children from my marriage, but he has 2 boys. The oldest one is of age and has baby #3 on the way. He will not work and he only talks to his dad if he wants something. Son #2 is not biologically his child. His first wife had an affair and now they have a son from it. I wanted to adopt, we couldn’t have children. My husband didn’t. So this bothered me alot. He says I hate his kids, but I don’t. I don’t like the way they use him. What do I do, to show him I love him & need him? That our marriage will work if we both try. Help?

You can’t make him love you. It’s either there or it’s not. He needs to tell you what the problem is. From your description it sounds like resentment. Then you grew apart. If you think the kids are using him, you maybe right but all kids use their parents. As a loving protective wife you did your job when you warned him. If he lets it keep happening you have to take a back seat on that one. He made his decision to let them walk on him. Unfortunately it looks like the ball is in his court. All you can do is apologies about your fears with the kids and hope that he will want to come back. Chances are there is more going on and only he can answer that. I hope you find your way back to each other.

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