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After many years of marriage, I realize that it is me and not him that failed to do my part. Unfortunately his heart has wondered toward another. We are still married, what can I do besides apologize and ask for another chance? I’ve done that, but he won’t give me any clear sign whch way he is headed….
The road back from adultery is a very hard one. If you don’t have any kids, I would say leave him and start over with someone else. You could spend months of work on the relationship only to find he has been double dipping.
If you do have kids, then for their sakes, try to save the marriage. First make it clear you made the mistakes, realize it now, and are willing to make things right. Here are the rules:
Never ever contact the other man, ever, and not in any way, phone, mail, email etc. If the other man ever does contact you, inform your husband immediately and let him handle things, never talk or answer him yourself.
After your initial "deal" never talk about the affair again, neither of you, even in a fight.
If either of you cheats on the other, all bets are off, it’s divorce court.
Be a loving wife. He will need, and I’m serious here, lots of sex at first. That will go very far in healing things. Eventually you can level off, but never again make him go for more than a week or so without a climax. The lack of sex is the number one reason men start sniffing around for some one else. You have a lot of making up and you need to be sure he sees your love for him as real.
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is it ok to cheat if ur wife doesnt satisfy your sexual needs ?
all your stress will be gone , and every one will be happy , you , the wife , and the kids .
Cheating is never okay .. you really need to find ways to spice up your marriage .. in addition find ways to communicate your needs and wants to your wife. Seek counseling as well but cheating doesn’t save your marriage for your children .. it will only create more problems and also could lead to a broken home.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
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I just don’t understand the logic behind it ! there will always be resentment,yet some still hang around for the bitter pain !
Kids is the only thing I can think of but my man would be a eunuch if he pulled that B.S.!!!!!
If you can’t deal with the lack of sex and the nagging is cheating the only way to save the marriage?
also men like to be treated special as women do once you get married that stops so is cheating the only way to cure this?
This is one of the most vexing conundrums of marriage.
Here are some excerpts from the chapter on Fidelity:
"You are married to a woman who is not interested in meeting your physical needs yet are
prohibited from finding relief for those needs. This seems to be a fairly recent development
stemming from the social evolution which comes with an increasing population.
There was once a time where males were encouraged to pick one out of the herd and were
able to drag her by the hair back to the cave without recourse…….
Now given a woman’s new found equality the concept of fidelity has crept in. This seems to be a not so very veiled attempt to establish another level of control for women , of your sexuality, which was previously not available to them. "
"Once established as a method of control any deviation from that control mechanism is seem as undesirable.
One of the best ways to keep this control active is to label the activity as something bad, like cheating or infidelity."
"We all know that this desire to get our genetics widely dispersed is a natural evolutionary trait and the desire to keep a Man’s genetics so narrowly defined is counter to nature."
The conclusion to this problem is to remove the negative label and call it what it is, SIDE ACTION and view it as a necessary evolutionary condition.
It is the physical release that a Man needs to be able to exist in a life where society suggests fidelity.
We would be so much better off were we to accept this activity again.
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Would you, let your spouse fulfill "past regrets" in life to save your marriage?
Pasted regrets is what you spouse wanted to do or wanted to have done before marriage, but was unable or never had the opportunity to do it at the time; but your spouse is trying to see past the regrets by talking openly about them, telling about all the desires wanted to do in life, but also feels a little cheated in life because your spouse believe’s that they got married a little to soon. Now there is no regrets about the marriage, just regrets that your spouse never had a chance to do the things or wanted to do the things in life before it’s late & will get to old & die. With that thought in mind, (even though trying to move past it) it is starting to affect the marriage.
Would you, let your spouse fulfill their past regrets,(too personal to list here) or even help your spouse fulfill those regrets it to save your marriage.
Even though it is something you would never allow, or even considered?
If his idea of past regrets is having a threesome with twins, then no. But if he wants to skydive or bungee jump, why not.
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