ok so i was seeing a married man we were sleeping with each other for near enough a year and a half
it ended over a year ago now last time i saw him was over a yaer ago however
iv recently message him via the facebook website
just to ask how things were going and if he was ok
was just a polite message b ut the next day to messageing him id been out with friends and got very DRUNK…
therefore i messaged him once again telling him i missed not seeing him
i later got a message saying sorry do i no you inplieing hed had no other messages i know its his wife messageing me back he wouldt put such a thing so now his wife knows of his little secret but shes is not away that we were seeing each other for over a year
theres probably hell on within thier house hold at the moment
i really shouldnt of messaged him should i
i wish id of let well alone i was wrong of me i know!!
but do u thing they will work through it could you try save your marriage after finding out his been haveing an affair??
or will this be the end……
i think they have been married over ten years now
so i really dont no what the future holds for them both now?
could you forgive??
I think you’ve done enough. Go away and do nothing more. What they say and do and forgive and don’t is now their business. If he tells her the truth or makes up something is his choice. What she believes is her choice. Go away- let them try to have a life. Find someone who is not attached and can really be yours. EVEN if they did divorce and EVEN if he got back with you- could you ever really trust him? He has priors. Move on and do no more damage to his life, his wife’s life, or your own life.
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