“Sheikh, I’m A Cookie!” – Marriage Advice from Sheikh Al-Huweini


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In the Name of Allah, The Most Beneficent, The Most Merciful May Allah send His peace and blessings upon His final Messenger. To download (and reupload) this video in Hi-Def: IslamicEmirate.com Gender/Cookie.avi For everything Islamic, please visit: IslamicEmirate.com Sheikh Abu Ishaaq is a renowned Hadith scholar residing in Egypt, who was among the most prominent students of Sheikh Muhammad Nasir Ad-Deen Al-Albany, Rahimahullah.

How To Save A Marriage After Your Spouse Has Cheated

Loving a person with all your heart is your vow to the person you marry. But if you have been married for years now and you have found that your spouse is already cheating, then that is one tough problem that you have to face. You want to do your best but you do not know how to save a marriage after finding out that he is having an affair. If you ask other people, they may think that this is the end of the road but for those who want to give it another try, then there’s something that you can do about it. Having an illicit affair is considered as one of the extreme killers of any marriage and it can get very much complicated if you already have children to take care of.

Trying to fix a marriage after an illicit affair takes place need a lot of will on both parties. This is one of the major problems in marriage that is really hard to fix. You’d definitely feel hurt, confused, angry and insecure all at the same time if your spouse is not faithful. There are even times when you won’t understand why he/she could’ve done this to you, you even go to the extent of planning your revenge just to get even. If you want to save a marriage after an affair, both of you should work hard and not give up.

So, how do you fix a marriage after an affair?

Stop Lying

Be honest with your spouse. It may be something hard to do especially if both of you are still hurting, but this will definitely be a good start to mend your broken heart. If you can’t stop lying then itmight be the signal to end the marriage instead. Remember that change has to happen now.

Communicate

The lack of communication may have prompted the cheating. You are not talking to each other like you used to and it seems like you find it boring to be in each other’s company, hence, finding someone else’s company. In knowing how to save a marriage, both of you have to make the effort to talk to each other and try knowing each other again. There are still plenty of things to discover.

Make An Effort To Trust Your Spouse Again

All negative feelings take time to heal, and so your broken heart. You may feel bad about your spouse after he has cheated, but you cannot be angry forever. You need to help yourself by opening your heart for forgiveness and have the willingness to move on from the cheating incident. If you’re the one who has cheated, you have to realize that healing process won’t happen overnight. So do your best to win his/her trust by learning to trust yourself again.

Respect Time In Your Relationship

Respect each other’s time by committing to doing things that are time sensitive. Make time to meet your spouse in a dinner date even if you are both working in a different office. Give some time during the weekend to bond with each other. Show that you respect each other’s time and space by giving yourself to your spouse especially in those times that both of you need each other to work things out in your marriage.

Be Patient With Your Partner

Patience is indeed a virtue, especially when it comes to making your marriage work again. Take one step at a time, help your spouse to get over with every negative feeling that caused both of you to almost fall apart. This is one of the key tips on how to save a marriage today. Always believe in the power of love working in your married life and you will find yourself happy in each others arms again.

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How To Get A UK Visitors Visa

Applying for a UK visitor’s visa for a foreign friend to go to the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland can be very stressful. I am also certain that it is more difficult for people from some countries than for others. This is because the staff are concerned about the applicant’s ability to support him/herself. This is government policy and you must not hold it against the embassy staff – they are only doing their job! It is well worth remembering this when talking to the embassy staff about a UK visitor’s visa.

It is worth pointing out here that a (British) UK visitors visa is valid for six months and multiple entries into the UK, although in practice, the first visa to be granted will usually be limited by a note pinned into the visitors passport. For example, if you have applied for a visa to visit friends for the month of, say, March, you would be granted a multiple entry, 180 day visitor’s visa with a letter, signed by yourself, pinned into your passport, which states that you wish to visit the UK from March 1st to March 31st and that you will not attempt to extend that stay.

The stipulations of the visa also forbid you from claiming social benefits such as social security and national health. Very often, applicants are refused on their first try, because they do not present a strong enough reason for wanting to go to the UK. If the reason is to visit a friend, then the onus is on the applicant to prove a continuing, long-lasting relationship. This should have continued for at least 6 months and you should devote your attention to proving it

I will concentrate on providing evidence of a continuing relationship. Most applicants from poorer countries will need a sponsor. This is usually an employer or a lover. Obviously, immigration stamps in a passport can prove how long it is possible that a couple could have known each other, but you will need more evidence than that. A letter from a friend, employer or relative stating when you met can help. However, you should keep all correspondence, telephone bills, bank statements (recordings of ATM transactions), restaurant receipts, theatre tickets, train and bus tickets, even menus and photos. In fact, anything that can help establish that you are having the relationship that you claim you are having and that you have had it for at least six months.

Now is the time to get the ‘Visa Application Form’ or VAF from the embassy or its website. Their websites are very helpful and will inform you what you should enclose with the application for a UK visitor’s visa. However, a bare minimum would be: passport(s), VAF, fee, photos, sponsor’s letter and supporting proof and ‘evidence of a log-lasting, continuous relationship’ ie of at least six months standing.

The sponsor is, therefore, the key to making a successful (first) attempt at obtaining a UK visitor’s visa. The sponsor has to be prepared to act as guarantor for the applicant and the embassy staff will want to be able to check the sponsor’s ability to take care of the applicant.

This means that the sponsor has to provide a letter from his/her employer proving continued, stable employment and/or a bank book, proving that he/she has enough money to provide what he/she has pledged on the UK visitor’s visa application form; and proof of accommodation in the form of paid council tax bills, property deeds or a letter from the mortgage provider. Proof of marital status does not seem to be an issue for the sponsor or the applicant, although the question is asked of the latter. Some applicants are refused for apparently strange reasons such as:

“Mr. / Mrs. Miss Applicant for a UK visitor’s visa has not previously used a passport” – easy, just go over the nearest border.

“Mr. / Mrs. / Miss Applicant for a UK visitor’s visa has not proven strong enough social or economic ties to his/her country of origin” – they are saying they don’t trust you to go home after your visit. In this case, try to prove these ties with a letter from your employer, a letter from your bank, a letter from a ‘trusted person’ like a doctor, lawyer and proof of ownership of any real estate.

Approach the application for a UK visitor’s visa with caution; do not rush. It is better to get it right first time. Think about why you want to go to Great Britain; determine a ‘good reason’ and remember it – you will probably be asked. Be a solicitor for a day and support everything you say with irrefutable, written evidence.

Retell your ‘story’ to a friend until you are comfortable with it, because you don’t want to appear hesitant, but on the other hand don’t learn a story parrot-fashion. You will be alone at the interview and, although you will be required to answer some questions in English, the proceedings can be in English or your own language. UK visitor’s visas are usually ready to be collected the following day, but not normally on a Friday.

Warning: get a longer permit to stay than you need, because the UK visitor’s visa is valid from the day it is issued, but you probably don’t have a flight booked yet. You can be delayed getting there and coming back too. The rest of the 180-day multiple entry UK visitor’s visa may have to be cancelled on your return to help deter you from returning on that visa. If you have to do this, don’t return on a Friday because the embassy is closed on the weekend.

Finally, the best tip of all: do not lie, they will find out; it is their job!

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Christian Marriage Advice – Save a Struggling Marriage – Joel and Kathy Davisson

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Saving Your Marriage And Looking Forward To The Future

What is the thing you value the most, besides your own life? Your spouse? Your Children? Your whole family? If this is true, then do you know how much a divorce would affect each and every one of them? The truth is, a divorce is not something you need to go through and by all means, you should try to avoid it as much as possible. There are so many individuals out there that just give up on their spouse and do not care who they hurt in the process. Instead of giving up, you need to do something about it. We are sure your parent’s taught you not to give up on anything in your life. If they didn’t, then you should know it by now. Saving your marriage is not going to be too complicated. It’s not like you have to go out their and build an entire city. As we continue this article, we are going to give you some tips you could use.

First of all, you need to realize that no one is “the boss” in a relationship. Sure, people joke about who wears the pants in the marriage, but that should be the both of you. Everything you do should be done together. This does not mean following one another around and being under each other ever second of the waking day.

What we mean by this is those main decisions that need to be made. For instance, when a bill comes in, that is something you should calmly speak about. There are so many people that argue over bills that it is pathetic. When we got married, we told our spouse that we would never let money come in the way of our relationship. To this day, six years later, we are keeping that promises. Do we have money troubles? Yes, but we always talk with one another and learn how to work it out.

In order to really succeed at what you are doing, you will need to put both of your minds to it. This does not mean sitting down at the table for an hour or so, then moving forward with your life. You need to continue repairing that relationship and never stop. Why do we say never stop? Because when you neglect a relationship, troubles will occur.

When you are in a marriage, if you make a mistake, then just fix it. You should never run away from your problems as this is not going to get you anywhere. If the president of the United States and everyone in the white house just threw up their hands and ran away from their problems, where would that leave the citizens of the United States? The same goes for you, if you just threw up your hands and left your family, where would your family be?

You need to learn to respect one another for who you are. Yes, he or she has hobbies you do not exactly understand, but that is what makes them their person. Sure, they play video games and it’s not fun to you, but we are sure you do other things that are not fun to them. Learn about the other’s hobbies. Perhaps, you are not interested in the hobby, because you do not understand it. You see, saving your marriage may not be that piece of cake you had been hoping for, but it is very well possible.

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